A time to detox for sake of self

By Eytan Kent, 12th Grade

 

While sharing and reminiscing during the first weeks of school, students usually remember either how fun their summer was or if it helped their college resumes. While there are many variations of programs or summer plans, they usually fall into either one of these two categories.

Participating in activities, programs, internships or classes for college are great things to do — but only if they’re during the school year. Summer is meant for going to camp as staff or a camper, spending time with friends or family, and going to the beach or otherwise relaxing— not for building a college resume.

It’s a time to make memories and grow, religiously and personally. It’s a time to deepen close friendships or create new ones. This can only be done without the pressure of college constantly on students’ minds, which will inevitably be the case
when the intention behind participating in something is to improve that application.

More than that, summer is a time to just be different.

From late August to mid-June, students are consumed with work. Homework, extra-curriculars, SATs and college prep take many hours beyond the school day, leaving dedicated students with little time for family, socializing and Netflix. And when students do find time to do these things, they sacrifice their sleep.

So during the year, you have exhausted students who are spread way too thin for their own good.

Summer should be the time where students detox, and detox means engaging in a behavior that some high school students forget exists: fun. Fun comes in all shapes and sizes: camp, family vacations, Israel programs, or even internships if it’s in a field that interests you. Summer is the time when you can experience variety in activities, people you’re around and the places you go.

It’s is the time when you rejuvenate yourself so you come back strong for the taxing school year — and hopefully have become a better, more balanced and complete person.

Colleges love when students have accomplished many things, and getting an internship or doing a leadership fellowship might look great on an application. But it will never guarantee a specific outcome in terms of college admission anyway. So why give up all the benefits of doing something completely college-neutral?

Instead, take the summer to develop interests you don’t get to foster during the school year. Enjoy the free time when you can. Summer is fleeting and the pressures of the school year will explode over you before you’re ready for them.

If you don’t let yourself have fun during the summer, you’re going to be burnt out during the year. And when you get to college, you might not know who you are.

The point is, no matter what you do during the summer, it should be for a l’shma purpose. It should be for the sake of itself and nothing else.

 


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